Is Your Wardrobe Like Junk Food?

If I asked you to describe the clothing hanging in your closet right now what words would come to mind? Nourishing, fulfilling and sensual? Or would it be better described as unsatisfying, disappointing and always leaves you wanting more. Now make a mental note of these words, thoughts and feelings and notice how you feel.

Many people joke about fast food saying there's a secret ingredient that makes it addictive. While I'm not sure what goes into it, I'm pretty sure I know what's missing - real, whole foods that nourish the body and leave you feeling great. After eating a fast food meal, although we've often surpassed our daily calorie and fat quota by a stretch, we're still left wanting more because essential needs aren't being met such as vitamins, minerals and just the feel good factor of having sat down to a nourishing meal and enjoyed it with the company of friends and family.

Our wardrobes can have the same effect. There's no coincidence that cheap, mass-produced clothing is referred to as 'fast fashion'. It's quick, easy and inexpensive, much like a Happy Meal, but is too soon forgotten. It may not wash well or may pill more quickly than we'd like, leaving us to buy more clothing to replace it.

Now don't get me wrong - I tell my clients it's perfectly ok to have some 'fast fashion' in their wardobes but knowing how it fits in is key. When a wardrobe is built on good-quality core items then it can be updated seasonally by bringing in said fast fashion to give it a current look, inject some color and bring in some personality. But the differentiating factor is that these pieces are not purchased to last for several years. They're planned for, they're bought for the current season and they're discarded once they've passed their prime.

Having a wardrobe that is built on fast fashion (inexpensive items, sale items that aren't quite right or other items that were bought in the heat of the moment) will always leave us wanting more, causing us to over-buy (or overeat) because we never get what we need and are never really satisfied. Even when our closets are stuffed to the gills and we have so much clothing that we can't even get to it, we never feel that we can go to our closet, choose the perfect outfit time after time and emerge looking and feeling great. It's always a stress-filled endeavor.

So what's the remedy? Easy, my dear. A diet. But since I'm not a big fan of this four letter word I prefer to use the term 'strategy'. Here is my remedy for a junk food wardrobe:

1/ First, bust the clutter. Go through your closet and weed out anything you can part with, items you no longer wear and those pieces that pilled after the first washing. Take note of labels, how long you've owned the garment, and what attracted you to it in the first place. This will serve you well in the future.

2/ Now assess what's left. Are there some good, nourishing core items in there that you forgot about? Did you find some hidden gems in the midst of the clutter? Or will you be starting from scratch to build a wardrobe that will really serve you and leave you feeling 'satisfied' every time?

3/ Determine your needs. This can be an on-going list that you keep on hand in your closet. When you go to get dressed and have that "I wish I had a __" thought, write it down. Some of my best purchases have come from those very insights. Notice if you keep wishing for the same thing over and over (a great belt, a colorful scarf, a netural jacket, etc) and you'll begin to understand what you really desire from your wardrobe, and differentiate it from a fleeting 'craving'.

4/ Go shopping. Go alone, take your list and have a plan. You will buy what's on your list. You will only entertain buying other items if they pass this test:

·        This item fits me very well, or I can easily have it altered (and am sure I will)

·        This item goes with at least 3 items I already own

·        This item is well made of quality fabric

·        This item can be worn for more than 1 season

·        I love it and can't wait to wear it!

5/ When you return home with your new items, have fun with them. Play around and see how many outfits you can come up with, and if you need anything else to complete a look (keep a running list so you'll always have a goal when you do have time to shop). Take notes and remember those outfits that really make you feel more like you!

Taking time to build a wardrobe that's filled with both quality items and a few fast food items that were bought with intention will serve you well. You'll be assured have outfits that are ready at a moment's notice and will leave you feeling comforted, satisfied and like everything's going to be ok - much like a homecooked meal from mom.

Spring Style Refresher

Spring is here and it’s the perfect time to refresh and update your style. Most women I talk to want to add a little polish and pizzazz to their image this spring but don't know where to begin.  If you're stuck in a rut and ready to boost your image, read on. 

Are you tired of what's in your closet?
Do you feel stuck when in comes to your style?
Are you confused about what's really your style?

Then I'd like to invite you to say 'yes' to yourself!  Your image matters more than you may think.  Too often I hear women complain about their lack of style, how frumpy they feel and how they dislike shopping.  The good news is that knowing what to wear starts with knowing these tidbits of information.  Once you know these, creating your wardrobe strategy can be easy.  So I want to give you a little incentive to look your very best.

Announcing, my Spring Style Refresher - for a limited time only!

Book it here: http://tinyurl.com/d46mt7u

This package was designed to inject some style into your wardrobe, and to help you discover your own unique look.  A quick and easy solution to knowing just what to wear this spring and how to WOW! everyone at all your special occasions.  It includes:

1/ Color analysis with color palette.  I’ll match up your skin, hair and eye color to determine your personal color harmony.  Then we’ll discover your ‘Fabulous Five’ colors to help you create a wardrobe strategy and know where to put your focus.  Let me help you to see how wearing color can take your look to new heights.

2/ StyleFinder™ Assessment to help you determine your personal style and how to put together an outfit that feels like ‘you’!

3/ Wardrobe strategy to help you determine what to add to your wardrobe now to get maximum benefit.

BONUS: e-book, How to Build a Wardrobe – This comprehensive guide gives you a step by step process to help you understand what elements are needed to create your perfect wardrobe and cultivate your personal style.

***MASSIVE ACTION BONUS – the First 7 women to book this package receive my e-book, What to Wear: Top 10 Most Wearable Trends of the Season

Your investment: Just $397 – a fraction of the cost of my regular packages – and is only available for a limited time! Book before April 15^th to secure your spot and save $$!
Book it here: http://tinyurl.com/d46mt7u

**If you have friends, relatives or co-workers who would enjoy this package, please pass this along.  It's more fun to share!

How to Wear Emerald Green

By now I’m sure you’ve heard that the color for 2013 is Emerald Green.  With St. Patrick’s Day, as well as spring, on the horizon, now is a wonderful time to think about integrating green into your wardrobe.  Green is a very uplifting color that can be very flattering and easy on the eyes.  The meaning of green is growth, renewal, healing, changing, wealth, stability, richness, wealth, earth-friendly, so it’s no wonder its popularity is on the rise.  But what if emerald is not your best shade? 

Emerald green is a gorgeous color. Deep and intense, it works best on someone with cool and deep coloring and is not the best shade of green for everyone.  But I don’t want that to stop you from bringing green into your wardrobe in some form or fashion.

Green, as with any color, has many shades.  If a particular shade, like emerald, isn’t your absolute best shade, I want to help you understand how you can wear green and look fabulous!

Because Emerald is the color of the year is not reason enough to wear it if it doesn’t look good on you.  Look closely at how this green looks around your face.  Does it wash you out?  Does it light you up?  If it’s not your best green, the good news is that there are many shades of green in stores right now so choosing one that is your very best should not be very hard at all.

If your coloring is warm, opt for shades of chartreuse, celadon, olive, sage, moss or grass.  Your green has more yellow undertones and will flatter your yellow-toned skin.

If your coloring is cool, then embrace greens with blue undertones such as emerald, kelly green, lime, sea, jade, teal, shamrock and pine.

If you’re wearing multiple shades of green, be careful.  I once had a college professor show up in no less than 10 different shades of green and it was all the class could do to hear what she had to say.  Limit yourself to no more than 3 complementary shades of green, and err on the side of being conservative.  Blending greens with other hues, especially shades of turquoise and blue, can be especially pretty and flattering. 

If you suspect you’re not wearing the best shade for you, you’re probably right!  Try a shade closer that will better flatter your personal coloring and see how it can transform your image!

Wearing what’s hot, whether it’s a color or a trend, will only flatter you if you wear it in a way that brings out your best.  

Build Your Wardrobe with Your Fabulous Five

I’m not talking about your favorite rock band, I’m talking about colors!  Recently I coined the phrase ‘Fabulous Five’ to help my clients understand their best colors and how to integrate them into their wardrobe.

By now you know that I’m a big believer in creating a wardrobe strategy.  But many women don’t even know where to begin.  While color may seem like the obvious place to start, learning how to leverage the power of color to work for you (not against you – bye bye, black!) and use color t guide you in knowing what to buy and how to pull it all together offers an easy blueprint. 

For many years I have been coaching my clients to use a few of their best neutrals and best Wow! (accent) colors as a starting point.  Learning to wear color in a powerful and positive way is a great thing but can be daunting at first.  So starting with just a handful of colors can help you to focus and get exactly what you need, creating a core wardrobe and building from there. 

This past week, in my Discovery 101 sessions it was thrilling to see so many a-ha’s around this philosophy, and see everything just ‘click’ when my clients discovered their Fabulous Five and how to put them all together. 

Here’s how to discover your very own ‘Fabulous Five’:

1/ Core Neutrals

First, choose 2 of your very best core neutrals.  You know, least memorable and most neutral.  Dare I ask you to forget black?  Even if black is one of your best colors, let’s find some other neutrals that tie into your personal coloring.  These 2 will be your foundational colors and where you invest the bulk of your wardrobe budget.

2/ Wow! Colors

Next, choose 3 of your best Wow!, or accent, colors.  These are those lights and brights that really make you stand out.  They could be your eye color (especially if your eyes are blue), your skin intensifier or any other color that makes your hair, skin or eyes look amazing!  You want colors that are memorable and make a statement about who you are.

3/ Mix and Match

The key to creating your Fabulous Five is that each neutral goes with each of the Wow! colors, and the Wow! colors can be interchanged and all work together.  This mix and match approach allows for maximum versatility in your wardrobe, giving you more bang for your buck and making it EASY to know exactly what to bring into your wardrobe.

4/ Prints

While starting with solids gives you a good foundation, I strongly encourage you to bring in some prints, patterns and textures.  Ensure that the prints contain at least 2 of your Wow! colors so they will coordinate with your solids.  Jackets, cardigans, scarves, handbags, shoes, accessories, etc. are a fun place to bring prints in.

5/ Accessories

To keep things simple, choose a metal and stick with it.  It will help you to know what to buy, ensure that your jewelry is neutral and goes with everything, and make it easy to finish off your look with the polish of accessories.

If you’re not what your Fabulous Five are, play with some different colors over the week and see what resonates with you.  You want it to feel natural and all you.  Once you get this formula down, you’ll marvel at how easy shopping can be!

Your Assignment: Determine your Fabulous Five colors for your spring/summer wardrobe and make a list of what items you’d like to add in which colors.  Then let me hear from you!  I want to know what combinations you come up with and how this formula works for you! 

Need help?  As your StyleFinder™ Mentor, Consultant and Coach, I help you get to the essence of your style and dress in a way that makes you feel more like you, whether you’re a corporate executive or a stay at home mom.  Email me at Michele@onechicmama.com to set up a complimentary get acquainted session and learn how I can help you!

Look Fabulous for Less

Great style doesn't have a price tag.  But it can be a real challenge to cultivate your own sense of style on a budget.  That's why every purchase you make matters!

Your shopping habits have taken years to form, and you may feel that you have learned how to become a great bargain shopper.  But do you really know what to buy and where to spend your money?  Chances are your habits are sabotaging your style - and even worse - your budget!  

Over the years you spend much more money than you realize on clothes, yet when you look in your closet you feel you have nothing to wear.  How can that be?  And why did all that money go down the drain?  Not to mention time, effort and energy...only to leave you frustrated and depressed.

Learn the art of shopping on a budget and making every penny count

Discover how to have more to wear with less clothing

Change your mindset to feel that you have more with less

Indulge yourself without breaking the bank

and learn how to make shopping work for you and NOT against you!

Purchase your copy here.

Look Fabulous for Less is my NEW workbook and I'm thrilled to bring you all this wonderful information that will change the way you think about shopping and about your wardrobe.  It not only is possible to look great on less, but you can actually make it easier to get dressed by planning strategically rather than snapping up the first sale item you see.

Creating a strategy is the secret to spending less, but knowing where to put your money - and how to get great things for less - are keys that will serve you no matter what your budget.  When you learn these principles, you can apply them for years to come to look and feel your best on any budget!

Snap up your copy of Look Fabulous for Less before January 30th and receive a FREE copy of my recently updated ebook, How to Build a Wardrobe.  These two tomes will be your guide and companion as you discover what your needs are and how to get what you truly want from your wardrobe.  

Purchase your copy here.

Because your budget doesn't have to mean the end of style!

Wardrobe Building Blocks: Secrets Your Mother Never Taught You

Decades-old dresses, ill-fitting jeans and tops that don’t go with anything.  Does this sound familiar?  If this is what’s in your closet at any given moment, then it’s no wonder every day when you go to get dressed you feel, well…

DESPERATE.

There, I said it.  And I know how it makes you feel because I’ve been there too.  Years ago.  And I vowed never to return. 

Want to break free of feeling desperate and actually have a closet filled with clothes that make you feel BEAUTIFUL?

CONFIDENT?

FABULOUS?

You can.  But you need a plan.  A really, really good plan.  And I have that.

Many women grow up thinking that they know how to build a wardrobe because they saw their mother do it, or their great aunt, or the stylish mom of a friend.  Yet the truth is that many women are misguided, and instead of buying things that work to build a wardrobe and give you plenty of options day in and day out, you simply repeat the same mistakes. Mistakes that are based on very out-dated rules.  You know the drill…

Buy multiples.  Wear a black dress.  Everyone MUST have blah, blah, blah…

In my humble opinion, the only thing everyone MUST have are the right clothes!

Now, let’s get to that.  In 2012, did you have the right clothes?  Chances are pretty good that you did NOT, and that you spent a great deal of time feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and downright desperate when it came to shopping, putting together an outfit or getting dressed. 

Do you really want to make the same mistakes in 2013?  I know in your heart of hearts that you really don’t.  How do I know this?  Because making these mistakes time after time will only leave you heartbroken, powerless, timid and alone.  Instead of taking the plunge headfirst into the dating scene, or a new job, or a big change or living the life of your dreams, you’re holding yourself back.  Feeling unworthy.  Playing small.  I know. I’ve been there, remember? 

So here’s my plan of escape for you.  Don’t worry, it’s easy to follow, no matter where you are in the world.  And the best part is that this truly is a ONE SIZE FITS ALL, even in a world where one size NEVER fits all.  It’s adaptable.  Open to interpretation.  And something you can customize to express who you truly are, and be the best YOU, you can be.  Sound good so far?

This plan has two parts.  One is for those of you who are in the Raleigh area, or would like to come to Raleigh for a visit.  It’s a great place, with lots of fantastic shopping, dining and much more, so as you leave feeling inspired, you can stop off and start building your wardrobe right away. 

Plan 1/ Wardrobe Building Blocks: Secrets Your Mother Never Taught You 

Workshop Intensive:

When: Wednesday, January 16^th, 9am – 1pm, including a yummy and delicious lunch

Where: The One Chic Mama Studios, Beautiful Lafayette Village, Raleigh NC

What: This 4-hour intensive will cover all the fundamentals of building your perfect wardrobe and will unearth secrets only the pros know.  You’ll learn how to:

·         Create a wardrobe strategy that works for you.

·         Put together a fabulous outfit in seconds flat.

·         Wear things in a way that brings out your best.

·         Dress to make the most of your shape, size, age and personal style.

·         Look polished no matter what your budget.

·         Get dressed effortlessly, everyday!

Here’s what you’ll get:

1.      Wardrobe Worksheets

2.      Live demonstrations on models with real clothes to create outfits, learn to accessorize and accentuate assets

3.      Up close and personal demonstrations by Mary Michele Little

4.      E-book, A Wardrobe Primer

5.      Personal Wardrobe Planner

6.      Personal Image Checklist

7.      E-book, What to Wear: Top 10 Most Wearable Trends of the Season

BONUS: The first 5 women to secure a spot will receive a complimentary post-workshop Style Strategy session to help you ‘unstuck your style’ AND a personal critique of up to 3 outfits by Mary Michele at the workshop.  Hurry!  Only 10 seats available!!

Book it here. 

This valuable workshop is worth much more than the $497 price tag, saving you valuable time, energy and money.  Yet you can save $200 if you secure your spot before January 9^th, 2013.  You can attend and get all the great benefits for just $297, lessons that will last you for a lifetime!

Plan 2/ Wardrobe Building Blocks Beauty Bundle, virtual tools for managing your wardrobe

This virtual wardrobe booster is something that you can refer to over and over again, and will help you to save time, money and effort for years to come, while adding polish and panache to your image!

It includes:

1.      Wardrobe Worksheets

2.      E-book, A Wardrobe Primer

3.      Personal Image Checklist

4.      E-book, What to Wear: Top 10 Most Wearable Trends of the Season

BONUS: The first 5 women to secure a spot will receive a complimentary 30-minute Style Strategy session to help you ‘unstuck your style’.

This virtual bundle is just $97 until Sunday January 9^th, 2013, After that the price goes to $197

Purchase here.

This package is virtual and perfect for women around the world!  Style is not limited, but something that we all get to experience, in our own unique way.  I want to help you make 2013 your most chic year yet, no matter what your size, your age or your budget.

To your fabulous and unique style!

Make Your List and Check it Twice!

Chances are you’re in the throes of holiday gift-giving, checking off your shopping lists and testing your patience.  Yet there’s one list I want to encourage you to spend a little time on that you may not have thought of, and that’s your very own personal wardrobe list.

While your social calendar may be overflowing and your budget stretched to its limits, now is one of the best times to begin to think about your wardrobe for several reasons.  First, if someone is buying you a gift and you know what you need, instead of ending up with another knick knack that just collects dust, you could actually be adding to your wardrobe.  Get specific – “Gee, I could really use a new statement necklace in gold” or “I would love to have a few new short sleeved t-shirts from Michael Stars in jewel tones”.  When you give them details, you actually do yourself a favor – and them a favor as well! 

And second, this time of year (now through late January) is amazing for scoring deals.  So when you’re out shopping for friends and family, if you see a not-to-be-missed deal on one of your must-have items, you can snap it up knowing it’s not an impulse buy and that it will be adding life to your wardrobe. 

Many of my clients come to me with a closet filled with clothes, yet no strategic plan.  Year after year they add to their wardrobes without any real thought on how all the pieces will fit together.  They spend hundreds and thousands of dollars, but come away from their closet feeling desperate and depressed.  This, of course, leads to more shopping, which really only exacerbates the problem.  An once the mega clearance sales start, they’re tempted to snap up something for all the wrong reasons, out of desperation to have something new.  So how to you get off the wardrobe hamster wheel?  Start a list.  Here’s how:

1/ Take stock – No matter how busy you are, carve out some time whether it’s a few minutes each day for a week or a few hours one evening.  This is your uninterrupted time to get up close and personal with your wardrobe.  Go through each item and assess whether or not to keep it.  Does it fit?  Does it flatter?  Do you love it?  If the answer is no, then purge it from your closet immediately. 

2/ The Replacements – If it turns out that a well-loved favorite is now pilled, has stains or no longer fits you, ditch it and begin to look for a replacement.  These will be some of the first items to put on your list, and chances are some of the most worn.  Buy the best you can afford because these will be some of your go-to staples.  If you feel inclined, buy two.

3/ The Staples – What basics are you missing?  If you don’t have a favorite pair of jeans, are in need of some cardigans to layer, or a few separates to stretch your work wardrobe would make a difference for you, put these on your list.  You want to choose items that go with at least 3 items you already own.

4/ The Spice – Now, ask yourself what you really want to wear.  This could be anything from the latest boost to a beautiful bracelet or a pretty top.  Think of items that bring your look current and you can’t wait to wear.  This is the fun stuff, and if it’s trendy, you’ll most definitely catch a great bargain over the holidays.

5/ What’s Now, What’s Next – As you make your list, ask yourself what items will work for you now, and what will work for you in the spring.  A little planning and strategizing now will make a big difference for you in the coming months, and will also help you to view your wardrobe as a unified whole that will take you in and out of seasons for the next few years.

So make your own shopping list, and check it twice.  Go back to it as often as needed, and add to it what you desire.  This ‘work in progress’ is something that you can keep going continually so that you always know what you need, and to get a better handle on how to take advantage of some of the rock-bottom crazy sales we’re going to be seeing post-Christmas.  After all, a bargain is not a bargain unless it’s something you’d pay full price for.  And when you have your eye on the prize, even though it’s worth it to pay full price, it’s so much sweeter when you get a bargain!

Need help?  If you’re not sure what your style is, or where to even start, I’d love to help.  As your StyleFinder™ Mentor, Consultant and Coach, I help you get to the essence of your style and dress in a way that makes you feel more like you, whether you’re a corporate executive or a stay at home mom.  Email me at Michele@onechicmama.com.

Jump Start Your Style

If you’re a busy woman who has put herself last on her list. Perhaps you’re stuck in a rut, you’ve lost your sense of style or you simply want to redefine what your style is, whatever your age, this is for you!

Do you…

Wear the same things over and over?

Want a look that’s age-appropriate yet current?

Wonder what’s really ‘you’ anymore?

Find your body type has changed and you’re not sure how to dress for it?

Have a lot of clothes that just hang in your closet but you never actually wear?

Get tired of throwing away money on the wrong clothes?

What You Need Most Right Now
A simple plan that will tell you exactly what to wear, teamed with ongoing support to help you transition your wardrobe to be perfect for you.

Jump Start My Style Mini Session includes:

ü  Personal Color Analysis (with your personal Color Alliance palette – whoo hoo!)

ü  Body Type, Face Shape and Personal Scale Assessment

ü  In-person consultation with me in my studio, or virtual Skype session if you’re out of town

ü  Personal  Style Workbook

Bonuses:

ü  E-book, How to Build a Wardrobe

ü  Personal Image Checklist

ü  Affirmations

PLUS, the first 5 women (or husbands!) to book this special will receive my StyleFinder™ Assessment FREE!  This offer is only good until November 26, so don’t delay

You get all this for JUST $397…a $997 Value and the best price I’ve offered for an in-person session in a very long time.  But here’s the catch – I won’t be scheduling appointments until after January 1^st. You can go ahead and get your appointment on my calendar and I’ll give you some tips to get you started over the next few short weeks until we can work together in person.  Sound fair?

Book it here. 

This package also makes a fabulous gift for the college graduate, a new mom, your sister, your mother, your daughter or any woman in your life who could use a personal image boost.  Just say ‘gift’ and I’ll send you a lovely gift certificate for you to wrap up and present on the big day (holiday, birthday, Christmas, any day…).

xo

Michele

Get Style, Give Style

Quick, what’s your style?  Not sure?  Lost touch with it?  Never really had one to begin with? Then it’s time to discover your style and define your life!

When you know what your style is, shopping and getting dressed just become so much easier.  No more dressing all over the map.  Creating a cohesive style helps you to cut through the clutter and get clear on what’s really you! 

Understanding your style is like uncovering your very own super power.  Stepping into your style is empowering and helps you to move forward in your work, your business and your life with confidence and grace, feeling that you’re just being you.  Imagine that – a style that helps you to feel more like YOU, not like anyone or anything that you’re not (and will never be).  This is about uncovering the beautiful woman you were created to be and celebrating her individuality.

My proprietary StyleFinder™ System was created to help you to just that – discover your true style, and cultivate a look that is consistent with who you are and all you do.

You may be asking yourself if this really works.  Well, let me tell you that my true passion for most of my life (ever since I was a young girl and ripped a dress down the front because it didn’t feel like me) has been true style expression – first mastering my own, now teaching my clients to do the same.  I have created a foolproof system that gives you 3 words that uncover the essence of your style, and who you are to the core.  These words, when revealed, can be powerful.  Not only do they speak to who you are, they speak to who you are not and make it easy-peasy to say NO to those things that just aren’t you.    

Last week I had the pleasure of working with a client who was skeptical.  In her words her style was all over the map and she was convinced that I couldn’t determine what her style was.  After our first session, and a few days for it to all sink in, I showed up for a Closet Clarity session.  Do you know what she told me?  She said I NAILED it!  That the words resonated with her.  When she got her Elements of Style cards that include things such as her shadow side and what’s most important, she knew that it all had come together and that she was on the road to cultivating a defined style that helped her feel more like her.  Hooray!

Because I know that you struggle with your style, dislike shopping and find it difficult to put an outfit together, I want to offer you some help.  I want to help you discover your own true style and experience the ease of putting it all together. 

StyleFinder™ Holiday Special

Purchase a StyleFinder™ Assessment + Elements of Style cards + StyleFinder™ Report for just $97

And GET ONE FREE!!

Book it here.

I feel that great style should be shared, and when you gift a friend or family member with the discovery of their very own style, you will also benefit because now you’ll immediately have a ‘style buddy’ who gets it.  This is pefect for:

Your sister

Your mother

Your daughter

Your friends

Your co-workers

Your boss

Or any woman in your life who would enjoy knowing what her style truly is.

Once you sign up you’ll receive your very own assessment to go ahead and take.  Then you’ll have your choice of having an assessment sent directly to your recipient, or a personalized gift certificate which you can wrap up for the holidays, tuck into their stocking or go ahead and give them immediately so that they can discover their true style and become empowered to express themselves through their image, boosting their career, their self-confidence and their style quotient. 

What are you waiting for? 

But hurry!  This offer expires at Midnight, EST on Friday, November 16th.  

The Truth About Skinny Jeans

By now, you’ve surely noticed that skinny jeans are all the rage.  They’re everywhere you look – in magazines, on models and in stores.  But the truth is they’re really not for everyone.

Years ago jeggings came out and were all the rage.  I remember chatting with a boutique owner who informed me that “all women must own a pair of jeggings.” I beg to differ.

Call me a maverick, but I just don’t think that there is one item of clothing that all women MUST own, ever.  Instead, I believe that all women should wear things that fit and flatter their body type, suit their personal style and work for their lifestyle, period.  

I give you permission not to wear skinny jeans.  Like, ever.  Why?  Because if you don’t look good then you won’t feel good, and if you don’t feel good then you’re jeopardizing your self-confidence and your own personal style.  Regardless of what the trends are, what’s in style or what all your friends tell you to do, choose what really resonates with you and don’t ever second guess it!  Ever.

For those who choose to wear skinny jeans, here are my suggestions for getting the most from this look based on your body type:

Linear (Tube) Body Type – You’re long, lean and have few, if any, curves.  Skinnies are perfect for your lithe, athletic body type.  Try pairing them with a long tunic. Layer on a jacket to create the illusion of curves.  A pair of ballet flats will finish this look off with style.

Apple Body Type – Apples carry their weight in the tummy area.  When worn correctly skinny jeans can show off your assets.  Try a pair in a dark color and top it off with a roomy tunic in a deep, rich color that gently skims the body while making you look slimmer.  Elongate your leg line with a pair of nude shoes and draw the eye upward with a gorgeous pair of earrings.

Pear Body Type – Pears carry their weight below the waist and are generally curvy in this area.  Ensure you select a pair that fit you well in this area – high-waisted are best – and keep you covered without creating a muffin top.  A printed tunic will draw the eye upward and a statement necklace will keep the focus where you want it – around your face.

Hourglass Body Type – If you’re curvy both above and below the waist, chances are you’re an hourglass.  Be sure to choose skinny jeans that enhance your curves and don’t give you a muffin top. A darker wash minimizes your hips and thighs.  Team these with a vibrant print tunic, but be sure to belt it to make the most of your small waist.

The Secret Power of Personal Style

Audrey Hepburn had it. 
Coco Chanel had it.
Jackie O had it.

That certain something that you can’t really put your finger on but that is so compelling you just can’t look away.  It’s more than just their clothes, it’s who they are to the core.

Their personal style and their very essence are presented in a way that we can all relate to and makes us feel that we already know these women.  We get a sense of who they are: Audrey, playful and down to earth.  Coco, bold, daring and unpredictable.  Jackie, elegant yet relaxed.

Your style speaks louder than words.  There is a secret power in one’s personal style that can help you to stand out for all the right reasons and become memorable.  When you know what your style is, it becomes easier to communicate who you are to the world in all you do.

Yet if you aren’t sure what your personal style is, communicating who you clearly and effectively can be a tricky proposition.

Learning how to discover your very own personal style can be easier than you might think!  Over the past few decades of my life I have paid close attention to personal style and to what makes a woman's look unique.  I've noticed patterns, nuances and quirks.  I've seen how women deny certain aspects of their style and they suffer (and so does their work).  I've seen how not knowing one's personal style leads to overwhelm in the stores and in the closet, resulting in a mish-mash of clothing that doesn't really feel like you.

Well, say good-bye to not knowing.  I've created my proprietary StyleFinder(tm) System that gets right to the essence of what your style is.  I've seen many (many!) clients have huge a-ha's and breakthrough's as they discover who they truly are and how they revel in the fact that it just feels right.  It's like unlocking the secrets to the universe and it's empowering in oh so many ways.

Want to know what your style is?  I'd like to offer you my proprietary StyleFinder(tm) System (a virtual, online assessment taken in the comfort of your own home) at a steal!  I don't generally offer this as a stand-aone service, but I know that this is powerful stuff and that boosting your style for the fall is the perfect time to get to the heart of who you are.

So I'm giving you the keys to the universe for just $97!  You'll save over $100 just on the assessment alone, plus I'm giving you some other goodies!

For a limited time (through October 25th) I'm offering you my StyleFinder(tm) assessment.  But that's not all!  Because I want you to look your best I am goign to throw in a few bonuses to boot!

The first 11 women who sign up will a complimentary 30-minute phone or Skype Style session with me to discover how to put these elements into play and what to wear right now!  Hurry!

BONUS: Receive my e-book, What to Wear: Top 10 Most Wearable Trends of the Season and a set of my Elements of Style Cards.

Sign up here.

Success Story:
"Discovering my StyleFinder(tm) iD has been very helpful in streamlining my closet.  Now when I purchase clothes I feel more confident that I am investing in something that is truly my style.  I have a closet full of clothes that I love and never have the dreaded, 'I have nothing to wear' conversation in my head any more. Now I think, "what do I get to wear today?" 

Angee Robertson
Sheic Journals

To your amazing and beautiful style!
Love,
Michele

It's Fall and I'm Having a SALE!

It’s fall - one of my favorite times of year! The leaves are changing, the temperatures are dipping and that can only mean one thing. It’s time to change your clothes!

But if you’re like most women, you have no idea what to wear, or worse, where to start.

Before you set foot in the stores, letting panic take over and prompting you to make purchases that you’ll only regret later, I want to give you some tips that are going to help you shop with a strategy and buy only those things that will look good on you – and that you’ll actually wear!

So I’m having a SALE! (we all love a sale, don’t we?) But hurry, it’s only for 3 short days.  SAVE on 2 great offerings that will help you to take your style to the next level, no matter where you are.

Sale #1
Fall Fashion Express
Do you know what colors look best on you? Do you know what to buy besides black? Want to know how to dress 10 pounds thinner, save money and look your best? Then this is for you!

• Personal Color Profile
• Body Image Profile
• 5 outfit recommendations to help you know what to wear.
• BONUS: E-book, “How to Build a Wardrobe”

This package is virtual and can be done from anywhere in the world! And it’s a STEAL at just $197!! (Save more than $250!!).

Book it HERE.

For the first 5 women who sign up I’m going to gift you with a complimentary 30 minute style strategy session with me.  Don’t miss this one!

SALE #2

Personal/Virtual Shopping

You’re buying 2 hours of personal, guided shopping or virtual shopping with an expert to help you ensure you get what works for you!

I’ll shop with you or for you, online or in-person. This is perfect for those special occasions (the holidays are right around the corner) or simply building a fall and winter wardrobe that will boost your image and help you look your best.
This package is virtual and can be done from anywhere in the world! And it’s a STEAL at just $350!! (Save $200!).  

Book it Here.

BONUS: E-book, “What to Wear: The Top 10 Most Wearable Trends of the Season”

But don’t delay. At midnight, October 4, these specials will disappear just like Cinderella’s carriage did.  

NOTE: These packages make wonderful birthday gifts, holiday gifts, employee incentives or an investment in yourself!  (After all, you are your own best investment).  Gift certificates are available.

I look forward to helping you know what to wear, and to feel great about yourself!  

Love,

Michele

What You've Been Waiting For!

I’m in New Jersey today preparing to deliver a corporate image workshop at a Women in Leadership luncheon but I wanted to take a minute to tell you about a brand new offering that I know you’re gonna just love!

I created this for those of you who simply don’t know what to wear and want to look your very best!  I’d like to introduce my StyleFinder™ Blueprint in a Box.  Designed to give you a clear idea of what to wear for different occasions, this gives you the chance to work with me virtually while getting so much more than I’ve offered in the past.

I know how much you really don’t like to shop, or just don’t get how to put things together.  StyleFinder™ Blueprint in a Box is your solution!  Designed to be much more than a lookbook, Blueprint in a Box gives you detailed information that you can refer to, and outfits you can duplicate, over and over again, ensuring you’ll look great for years to come!

·         StyleFinder(tm) Blueprint in a Box includes:

• ·         Personal color and body image assessment
• ·         StyleFinder(tm) assessment
• ·         An in-depth guidebook with detailed information on building a wardrobe, wearing accessories and guidelines on what to play up and how to enhance your assets
• ·         Up to 25 'new' outfits made from clothing you already own and/or new items with links to purchase
• ·         BONUS ebook, How to Build a Wardrobe

StyleFinder™ Blueprint in a Box is a completely virtual program that will help you know what to wear for business, on the weekends, on dates, when speaking in public, whatever it is you want to look your best for. 

Upon signing up you’ll receive a detailed questionnaire that lets us learn more about you and how to create a look that is just right for you.  One you complete the assessment and return, along with several photographs, then we’ll set to work creating your blueprint.

Imagine, your very own personal guide to style!  What more could a girl want!

This package is valued at more than $1697, but I’m only charging $897.  However, for a limited time you can invest in your image – and yourself – and get the blueprint for just $697, saving $200!  You’ll get the best of your personal image information, teamed with personal shopping done by me – just for you!  It’s like having your own personal stylist, without having to leave the comfort of your own home!

Say YES to yourself and sign up today here.

Bonus: First 11 women to sign up get a FREE 30-minute style coaching call or Skype session with me along with a FREE copy of my seasonal trends e-book, What to Wear: Your Guide to the Top Ten Most Wearable Trends of the Season.

I can’t wait to help you look your very best, for whatever it is you want to do in life!

Hugs,

Michele

PS – Pass this on to a friend who might enjoy it and you’ll have the perfect style buddy who really gets your style!

{StyleFinder™ Profile} Miss North Carolina Discovers Her True Style!

Miss North Carolina, Arlie Honeycutt, knows a thing or two about style.  After all, the Garner, NC native has been in the spotlight, presenting herself at her best since the age of 14 when she was bitten by the pageant bug.

Arlie couldn’t have been more of a delight!  She is kind and gentle, with a generous heart.  To help Arlie uncover her true style, I asked her to take my StyleFinder™ assessment.  My philosophy on style is that it is not just the clothes you wear, it’s dressing authentically for who you are from the inside out.  Connecting with what your style truly is, and finding ways to express that through your clothing can be a powerful force in feeling confident and empowered by your own style.  I wanted to help Arlie know what to look for in her clothes so that she stays true to her style.  After all, with so many opportunities to experiment with different styles, it can sometimes be tricky to have clarity on what your own is. 

Arlie’s StyleFinder™ iD is Delicate/Classic and Sporty , and in working with her I found that this is spot on in helping her express exactly who she is.

Delicate means that what’s most important to her is a look that is feminine, yet not overdone - certainly a look that flatters Arlie’s soft coloring, feminine charm and gentle nature.  This is tempered with Classic, which means a timeless style that transcends the trends.  While Arlie looks amazing in whatever she puts on, classic styles are her go-to without getting too caught up in the trends.  Sporty is Arlie’s supporting word and shows that what is fundamental to her style is comfort.  Yet while comfort is of utmost importance, she must not sacrifice her style or she will be left feeling disconnected from herself.  Put these words altogether and you have a recipe for style that creates a look just perfect for Arlie.

Want to discover your true style?  Contact me at Michele@OneChicMama.com for details.

* Mary Michele worked with Arlie on a recent article for the Fall 2012 issue of Triangle Style Magazine.  Read the full piece and see more images here.  

What to Wear Every Day

Do you have a go-to outfit?  You know, that fool-proof, fail-safe look that you resort to for more occasions than you’d like to admit?  While many women do have their tried and true, often what happens is that it starts out looking great, then becomes faded, worn and – yikes! – begins to look frumpy.  Yet knowing how to recreate this perfect combination of chic, casual and comfortable can leave you feeling more than a little anxious.  Have I hit a nerve?

If you’re like most women, putting together an outfit is not something you look forward to.  In fact, it may very well strike fear in the hearts of many as you visually appraise the contents of your closet. Then when you open the door you stand there and stare.  Blankly.  With little or no inspiration.  And grab, once again, your go-to outfit.  Chances are at least one item is black.  And chances are, when it comes right down to it, you don’t really love it and it’s not doing anything to bring out your best. 

But where to even start?  Let’s start with the basics.  Let me introduce you to ‘Upscale Casual’, which just happens to be the perfect blend of casual yet chic and is appropriate for many occasions; business casual offices, dropping the kids off at school, volunteering, grocery shopping, client meetings, PTA, book club, dinner with friends, networking events and so many more. 

Upscale Casual is what I end up recommending to so many of my clients for work, to wear when they want to look pulled together but low-key on the weekends and for any other time they don’t need to be dressed up but want to look great.  While it may seem tricky, the effect of Upscale Casual is what I like to call ‘greater than the sum of its parts’.  That is, the overall look is far more polished and chic than the pieces themselves.  Here’s how to get it:

1/ Start with the Basics – You can start with simple items – jeans and a t, a nice pair of trousers and a tank, even a simple dress.  The better quality and fit, the better.  Buying the best you can afford [core items] will make something simple into something special.  Simple pants and a top are great to wear around the house, the studio or to work, then when you want to go out into the real world, simply throw on your add ons.

2/ The Third Layer – There’s something about a jacket or cardigan, aka the ‘third layer’, that just gives your look a whole new edge and makes you feel more polished and pulled together.  Your third layer could be a great trench, a blazer, a cardigan or other topper.  Choose one that is a great color for you, that fits you to a t without adding bulk and really brings your look together.

3/ Shoe In – Shoes for this look can be as simple as you like.  Stick with flats or low wedges for best effect and ease of movement.  When you’re busy and have a lot to accomplish, wearing high heels or wedges can actually hinder your progress.

4/ Accessories Count – This is where you get to punctuate your look and create your signature style.  When adding in accessories, forget your tried and true’s and opt for something that will add punch to your outfit.  Something that speaks to you and your personal style will pull everything together in a chic way.

5/ Go For the Flow – While I am not a fan of wearing things that are matchy-matchy, you do want your look to flow together.  That is, everything should ‘relate’ to each other – clothing and jewelry alike – to create harmony.  This will ensure that you’re not overdressing or being overpowered by your look.  When it just flows effortlessly, it’s just right!

See what Upscale Casual outfits you can create in your closet.  Try mixing and matching things in new ways, taking a jacket out of context and pairing it with jeans, and simply pairing things in a way that is chic, yet still has a casual vibe.  This should open up a whole new world of possibilities while making it easy to know what to wear everyday – and giving you many options to choose from!

Want to learn how to create Upscale Casual outfits in your wardrobe?  Book a Closet Clarity session with Michele and see how many ‘new’ outfits you can create using what you already own.

Email Michele@OneChicMama.com for details!